How Can We Really Reach Teenagers in Sexuality Workshops?
In many high schools, sexuality education workshops are offered to students. These workshops play an important role in helping teens develop healthy relationships and maintain good sexual health. Yet, we sometimes notice that some boys participate less. They talk very little, seem less engaged, or stay on the sidelines. This raises an important question: how can we reach these young boys?
Behind the Disengagement, an Often Invisible Discomfort
A young guy who withdraws isn’t always indifferent. Sometimes, he doesn’t identify with the topics discussed or feels uncomfortable asking questions in front of others. Social norms also play a role. Many boys learn very early to hide their emotions, avoid talking about their fears, and not show their doubts. In this context, participating in a conversation about sexuality can feel uncomfortable.
« It’s for girls » : Why Some Boys Feel Less Concerned
Some boys also feel that the content is mostly aimed at teen girls. When sexuality is presented mainly through the lens of pregnancy prevention or education about contraceptive methods, many boys feel less concerned. They may then disengage, even though these issues affect them too.
The Influence of Social Media on Teenagers’ Sexuality
Social media also shapes how young boys perceive things. Some online messages portray discussions about consent or equality as attacks against boys. These simplified narratives can create a defensive attitude. In this context, some teenagers may see the workshops as moralizing, which reinforces their disengagement.
Contraception: Still an Uncomfortable Responsibility
Contraception is another important topic. Even today, this responsibility largely falls on girls and women. The pill, IUDs, medical appointments, and side effects are often part of their daily lives. When contraception is presented as a « female issue », many boys feel less concerned. Yet prevention is a shared responsibility. Communication, respect, and consent are essential components of sexual health.
How Can We Reach Them?
To encourage participation, it’s important to adapt how we intervene. Using simple language, discussing concrete situations, and creating a respectful atmosphere help young people feel more at ease. The goal isn’t to force them to talk, but to create a space where everyone can think, ask questions, and learn without judgment.
Sexuality Education that Reflects their Reality
Talking about sexuality with teenagers requires paying attention to their reality. This means listening to their concerns, recognizing their challenges, and adapting the messages to their needs. When young people feel understood and respected, they engage more. Learning becomes natural.
Sexual Health for Everyone: The Importance of an Inclusive and Clear Approach
Offering sexuality education that is accessible, inclusive and clear helps support healthier and more equal relationships. And it highlights one essential point: sexual health concerns everyone, no matter their gender.